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    <title type="text">Menees &amp; Menees</title>
    <subtitle type="text">Menees &#38; Menees</subtitle>

    <updated>2026-01-14T15:53:09Z</updated>

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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[3 ways a special needs trust can protect a vulnerable loved one]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47169</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:14Z</updated>
            <published>2021-07-27T15:56:15Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[A family member with special needs often requires extra support and consideration. For example, although most parents can stop financially supporting their children when they become adults, a child with special needs may never be legally capable of independence and may require ongoing care and financial support for the rest of their life. Parents have to worry not just about…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/07/3-ways-a-special-needs-trust-can-protect-a-vulnerable-loved-one/"><![CDATA[A family member with special needs often requires extra support and consideration. For example, although most parents can stop financially supporting their children when they become adults, a child with special needs may never be legally capable of independence and may require ongoing care and financial support for the rest of their life.

Parents have to worry not just about providing for their child throughout their working life and retirement but also after they die. A <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/terms/s/special-needs-trust.asp" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">special needs trust</a> is a powerful legal tool that helps parents and other adults who love someone with special needs protect that person. The following three protections could make a special needs trust an ideal solution for your family's circumstances.
<h2>Special needs trusts can help a loved one maximize their independence</h2>
Someone with physical or cognitive disabilities may not be able to live completely on their own. They could require support with daily functions or need guidance when it comes to maintaining household finances or meeting their own needs, like nutrition.

Developing a special needs trust can give your loved one some financial resources that they can rely on to cover their expenses. If your loved one wants to move out into their own apartment or possibly a group home, your special needs trust could give them the financial support they need to pursue those goals without giving them control over a large amount of assets that they might misuse.
<h2>Special needs trusts can keep your loved one connected with state benefits</h2>
Medicaid, educational support programs for adults with special needs and even housing benefits often have strict financial limitations for who does and does not qualify. If the only way that your loved one can live independently or receive the care they need is by receiving state benefits like Medicaid, an inheritance could be dangerous because it cuts them off from those resources.

Since a trust can involve planned limitations on how much someone uses or withdraws each year, it can prevent someone from disqualifying themselves from the benefits they require.
<h2>A special needs trust can protect your loved one from financial abuse</h2>
People with physical and cognitive disabilities can become targets for those with criminal or fraudulent intentions. Financial manipulation and abuse are a real concern for adults with special needs who have their own financial resources.

A trust limits who can access resources and why. It also requires a trustee, who can help protect your vulnerable loved one from those who might abuse them.

A special needs trust can protect your family member after you die and can also play a role in their independent living while you are still alive. Getting help with the creation and funding of <a href="/probate/" data-wpel-link="internal">a special needs trust</a> can help your family provide for its most vulnerable member.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What if my loved one died in a car accident?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47192</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:29Z</updated>
            <published>2021-04-05T19:34:03Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Losing a loved one is never easy. But it’s even more difficult if you lose a spouse, a child, a parent or a sibling in a tragic car accident. One moment, your family member was living a full life and the next, they were gone. It’s even more difficult to move forward if someone else’s negligence caused the deadly crash.…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/04/what-if-my-loved-one-died-in-a-car-accident/"><![CDATA[Losing a loved one is never easy. But it’s even more difficult if you lose a spouse, a child, a parent or a sibling in a tragic car accident. One moment, your family member was living a full life and the next, they were gone. It’s even more difficult to move forward if someone else’s negligence caused the deadly crash. Why did this happen? And now what are you supposed to do if your family is struggling financially because you’ve lost your family member’s income too?
<h2>Filing a wrongful death lawsuit</h2>
You may want to <a href="https://www.thebalance.com/what-is-a-wrongful-death-lawsuit-filing-information-3505254" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">file a wrongful death lawsuit</a> if your family is suffering financially from your loved one’s death. In a wrongful death lawsuit, your family could recoup:
<ul>
 	<li>Compensation for lost wages because of your loved one’s untimely death</li>
 	<li>Compensation for your loved one’s medical bills from the accident and funeral expenses</li>
 	<li>Compensation if your loved one suffered from their accident injuries before their death</li>
 	<li>Compensation for your pain and suffering from losing your loved one</li>
 	<li>Punitive damages</li>
</ul>
For a wrongful death lawsuit to succeed, you will need to prove someone else’s negligence caused the accident. In Missouri, you also need to file a wrongful death lawsuit within three years of your loved one’s death.
<h2>Getting help for a wrongful death lawsuit</h2>
Wrongful death lawsuits are complicated. You will need the help of an experienced personal injury attorney if you want to file a <a href="https://www.meneesmw.law/personal-injury/wrongful-death/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">wrongful death lawsuit</a> after your losing your loved one.

You shouldn’t have to suffer financial burdens because of your loved one’s death, especially if someone else’s negligence caused family member's death. A wrongful death lawsuit can help you regain financial stability in a difficult time and help you move forward.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How is property divided in a Missouri divorce?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47177</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:35Z</updated>
            <published>2021-03-29T19:23:40Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[One of the biggest challenges couples face when they divorce is diving their assets. It isn’t easy to decide who will keep the marital home and who will keep specific furniture, a country club membership or a vacation condo. Property division in divorce Many divorcing couples don’t realize how property is divided in divorce. In fact, many believe states automatically…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/03/how-is-property-divided-in-a-missouri-divorce/"><![CDATA[One of the biggest challenges couples face when they divorce is diving their assets. It isn’t easy to decide who will keep the marital home and who will keep specific furniture, a country club membership or a vacation condo.
<h2>Property division in divorce</h2>
Many divorcing couples don’t realize how property is divided in divorce. In fact, many believe states automatically divide assets 50-50 between divorcing couples. However, most states, including Missouri, practice <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/terms/e/equitable-division.asp" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">equitable property distribution</a>. With equitable property division, Missouri divides a divorcing couple’s property in a fair, equitable manner. So, in dividing a couple’s property, courts evaluate:
<ul>
 	<li>What each spouse’s age and health status is</li>
 	<li>How long a couple has been married</li>
 	<li>If one partner makes significantly more than the other</li>
 	<li>What each spouse’s earning potential is</li>
 	<li>What the financial needs of each spouse is</li>
 	<li>If infidelity or abuse led to the divorce</li>
</ul>
As a result, many times property division in Missouri divorces doesn’t end up a 50-50 split between spouses.
<h2>Setting priorities when dividing property in divorce</h2>
Before you begin to <a href="https://www.meneesmw.law/family-law/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">negotiate dividing property with your spouse</a>, you first need to account for all your assets. You should work closely with your divorce attorney to track all your assets and establish your property’s worth. This can be a difficult process if you and your spouse own multiple properties and have significant investments and lots of valuable items.

You also should think about what assets you are willing to give up and which ones you really want to keep. You may need to give up more of your shared investment assets or retirement funds to your spouse if you want to keep the marital home.

Dividing your assets in divorce isn’t a simple task. You will have to compromise, and it likely will be difficult to let go of some items. But this is part of the divorce process, and when it’s complete, you will be one step closer to getting a fresh start on your own.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What are the chances that I&#8217;ll receive alimony?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47189</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:43Z</updated>
            <published>2021-03-22T19:21:27Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[One of the most upsetting elements of a divorce is the financial toll it can take. As difficult as this can be for any person in a divorce, it can be particularly challenging for someone financially dependent on their spouse. Often, these parties worry about how they will support themselves and pay living expenses, so many people want to know…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/03/what-are-the-chances-that-ill-receive-alimony/"><![CDATA[One of the most upsetting elements of a divorce is the financial toll it can take. As difficult as this can be for any person in a divorce, it can be particularly challenging for someone financially dependent on their spouse.

Often, these parties worry about how they will support themselves and pay living expenses, so many people want to know their chances of receiving spousal maintenance or alimony.
<h2>Factors that favor alimony payments</h2>
There is no guarantee that a person will receive alimony in a divorce; either the parties must agree on it, or the courts must order it. As such, it is impossible to say with certainty whether a specific person will receive maintenance.

That said, certain factors can increase the likelihood that financial support. Per <a href="https://codes.findlaw.com/mo/title-xxx-domestic-relations/mo-rev-st-452-335.html" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Missouri alimony laws</a>, elements that can work in favor of someone seeking maintenance include:
<ul>
 	<li>A lack of resources to cover reasonable living needs</li>
 	<li>Being the custodial parent of a child whose needs prevent the parent from working</li>
 	<li>A lengthy marriage</li>
 	<li>Insufficient education, training or work history to secure employment right away</li>
 	<li>Financial inability to maintain the marital standard of living</li>
 	<li>Age or health-related conditions that prevent an individual from working</li>
 	<li>A valid prenuptial or postnuptial contract containing terms for alimony payments</li>
</ul>
These represent some of the factors that can make a person a candidate for spousal support.
<h2>Factors that can work against a petitioner</h2>
Some factors can work against a person seeking alimony. For example, the chances of receiving alimony can be lower for people who:
<ul>
 	<li>Were married for less than three years</li>
 	<li>Are financially independent</li>
 	<li>Have adequate resources to maintain the marital standard of living</li>
 	<li>Were abusive or violent during the marriage</li>
 	<li>Engaged in financial misconduct</li>
</ul>
These factors may not automatically disqualify a person from receiving support, but they can present obstacles to a petition.
<h2>Know your options and rights</h2>
For better or worse, there is no definitive formula for deciding who is and is not eligible for alimony. Often, cases come down to negotiating with an ex or whether they make their arguments to the court successfully. In either case, legal guidance can be crucial in helping you pursue the financial remedies you may deserve.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Preparation is key for a successful divorce outcome]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/03/preparation-is-key-for-a-successful-divorce-outcome/" />
            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47174</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:46Z</updated>
            <published>2021-03-15T19:09:03Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Even the thought of divorce can be devastating when you realize your once-loving relationship is over with the person you thought you’d spend the rest of your life with. Worries over your future financial well-being further complicate those emotions. Divorce is never easy, even when spouses still get along and agree that going their separate ways is for the best.…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/03/preparation-is-key-for-a-successful-divorce-outcome/"><![CDATA[Even the thought of divorce can be devastating when you realize your once-loving relationship is over with the person you thought you’d spend the rest of your life with. Worries over your future financial well-being further complicate those emotions.

Divorce is never easy, even when spouses still get along and agree that going their separate ways is for the best. It’s important to remember that better days are ahead, and you can relieve some of the angst over a divorce by getting organized.
<h2>Three steps to prepare for divorce</h2>
Knowledge is power, and in addition to working with an experienced divorce attorney, you can <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/catherineschnaubelt/2019/03/01/preparing-for-divorce-first-get-organized/?sh=5c9e474a5926" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">take some control of the process by educating yourself</a> about your financial situation. This is especially important for spouses who do not usually handle the family finances. Three things you can do are:

<strong>Take inventory:</strong> List all the accounts you and your spouse currently have separately and together. Get documents for all financial items, including:
<ul>
 	<li>Bank statements</li>
 	<li>Investment accounts</li>
 	<li>Retirement plans</li>
 	<li>Insurance policies</li>
 	<li>Real estate deeds</li>
 	<li>Mortgage documents</li>
 	<li>Personal loan documentation</li>
 	<li>Estate planning information such as wills and trusts</li>
 	<li>Credit card statements</li>
 	<li>List of marital and nonmarital property</li>
 	<li>Personal financial statements and balance sheets</li>
</ul>
<strong>Organize your documents:</strong> Once you’ve gathered this information, develop a system to help your lawyer and other advisors find the documents they need quickly and efficiently. This will save you time and money. One example is putting all homeownership paperwork together.

<strong>Classify assets:</strong> Once you have identified and sorted these assets, it’s time to determine which property is subject to division. Missouri is a dual-property state, meaning all assets are broken down into marital and nonmarital property. All marital property is divided equitably, but that doesn’t mean it will necessarily be an equal split. Your attorney will help you classify complex assets, such as business interests, inheritance, retirement funds, or property owned prior to marriage.
<h2>Prepare for divorce as soon as possible</h2>
It’s crucial to identify these assets as soon as you know you are headed for divorce, especially if you don’t normally handle financial matters for the family. Controlling spouses will sometimes try to keep this information from being easily accessible once a divorce is on the table.

Doing your homework about your finances ahead of time will help set you up for a fair and equitable outcome. Knowledge is power, and understanding your financial situation ahead of time not only gives you a picture of where you stand now but also for your new life. It can also provide added benefits by relieving some of the anxiety and stress that the process naturally creates.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Tricks insurance uses to minimize compensation]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=46946</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:51Z</updated>
            <published>2021-03-08T20:06:28Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Catastrophic injuries are incredibly costly in terms of both health and finances. When it comes time for the liable party’s insurance to pay for the costs of an injury, getting that compensation is harder than one might expect. Insurance companies are a business like any other, and their primary goal is not to take care of people, it is to…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/03/tricks-insurance-use-to-minimize-compensation/"><![CDATA[<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Catastrophic injuries are incredibly costly in terms of both health and finances. When it comes time for the liable party’s insurance to pay for the costs of an injury, getting that compensation is harder than one might expect.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Insurance companies are a business like any other, and their primary goal is not to take care of people, it is to make money. Their premiums alone pulled in </span><a class="_e75a791d-denali-editor-page-rtfLink" href="https://www.iii.org/fact-statistic/facts-statistics-industry-overview" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">$1.22 trillion in 2018</span></a><span data-preserver-spaces="true">. This business-oriented mindset often results in insurers taking extra measures to minimize any payments they need to pay.</span>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Insurance strategies</span></h2>
<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Insurers will say and do a lot to save money. If you are pursuing compensation for injuries, knowing what tricks insurance companies use can save you a lot of time and money. Common examples of these tricks include:</span>
<ul>
 	<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Claiming you do not need a lawyer: insurance companies will try and convince victims that they do not need an attorney. An attorney may be the only person you can count on to look after your best interests, which is why insurers want to keep lawyers out of things. You should never deal with insurance companies alone.</span></li>
 	<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Forcing you to sign paperwork: insurers may pressure victims into signing paperwork in a hurry. This pressuring is a standard method of getting victims to sign away their rights to compensation or to force them into settling for a small payment. Do not sign anything without your lawyer reviewing the paperwork first.</span></li>
 	<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Using vague phrasing: insurers will use phrases like “full coverage” to cause a victim to assume they are getting a better outcome than what is coming. An attorney can review the situation to determine if what insurers are saying is accurate.</span></li>
</ul>
<span data-preserver-spaces="true">If insurance companies are saying or doing something that makes you feel uncertain, follow that instinct, and speak to an attorney. When no one is present to regulate the insurer’s actions, things can turn ugly.</span>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Do not let insurers get away with it</span></h2>
<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Insurance companies prey upon victims who take them at their word and accept the first offer they receive. Anyone has the right to negotiate for fair compensation, and having an attorney at your side can help you earn it.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[3 post-divorce steps to manage your new financial reality]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=46803</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:55Z</updated>
            <published>2021-03-01T19:27:16Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Getting a divorce is a life-changing decision. It will affect all aspects of you and your family’s lives. Your spouse, your kids, even your dog’s life will be different. While the beginning of your new life may be a difficult transition, expect it to get better as time goes on. The hope, especially if you have kids, is that you…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/03/3-post-divorce-steps-to-manage-your-new-financial-reality/"><![CDATA[<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Getting a divorce is a life-changing decision. It will affect all aspects of you and your family's lives. Your spouse, your kids, even your dog's life will be different.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">While the beginning of your new life may be a difficult transition, expect it to get better as time goes on. The hope, especially if you have kids, is that you and your ex reach a mutually beneficial parenting plan and that your relationship with each other is amicable. The reality is that sometimes relationships are torn beyond repair.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">One relationship that you should always be working on improving is the relationship with your finances. We are all happier when we don't have to manage unsavory finances. Creating a budget is a great way to achieve a post-divorce financial piece of mind.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">To achieve this, consider following the three steps highlighted below.</span>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">1. List every income source and expense</span></h2>
<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Shying away from the word "every" won't help you here. Create two sections and list all of your income sources (job, alimony, child support, investments, savings) on the left side. On the right side, list every monthly expense (rent, mortgage, utility bills, loans, credit card payments, child care, food, education, gas, average extracurricular spending) and anything else that comes to mind.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">If you end up have disposable income after you have added up both sections, that's great, but always save room for an expense you might have missed or an unforeseen expense, like a car repair. If you do miss something, it'll arise at some point, and you can adjust your list and budget accordingly.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">If your expenses exceed your income, you'll have to </span><a class="_e75a791d-denali-editor-page-rtfLink" href="https://go.hfcu.org/blog/7-steps-to-building-your-post-divorce-budget" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">get creative</span></a><span data-preserver-spaces="true">. The goal now is to increase income and downsize expenses. This could mean asking for more hours at work or looking for freelance work and side hustles to up your income stream. You could also consider downsizing your home or selling off assets you don't need. Even if you do have disposable income, finding ways to increase the numbers in your bank account is always beneficial.</span>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">2. Create a budget and track it</span></h2>
<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Once you have all income streams and expenses listed, it's time to </span><a class="_e75a791d-denali-editor-page-rtfLink" href="https://www.investopedia.com/personal-finance/personal-finance-apps/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">create a budget</span></a><span data-preserver-spaces="true"> and stick to it. It's hard to tell how you spend your money without creating and monitoring a budget over time. After a couple of months, it will become evident how your spending your money and a clearer picture of how to manage it will come into focus. </span>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">3. Revise and pay (yourself)</span></h2>
<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Over and underestimations are common when you first begin budgeting but can arise at any time. As the budget ages, you'll start to notice trends in your spending and see where you can cut costs to stretch your income and possibly, identify opportunities to increase your income through investments, savings or other means. Make the budget work for you, not against you.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Your divorce may have significantly trimmed your budget, but even if it's only a few dollars here and there, earmark some money for savings each month. Put the extra money into savings until you have built up a reliable nest egg (most experts advise you to build up enough savings for a 3-month hiatus). Knowing that isn't reasonable for every situation, make sure you have at least enough saved to cover an unexpected expense.</span>

<span data-preserver-spaces="true">Lastly, put the extra money toward a little fun, because we all need to stay sane, and begin to invest in your future.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Divorce, discovery and deposition]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/02/divorce-discovery-and-deposition/" />
            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47271</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:52:58Z</updated>
            <published>2021-02-25T16:28:40Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Unless you have been through a divorce before, the legal terms people use could confuse you. Discovery and deposition are two commonly used processes that are actually fairly straightforward to understand. What is a discovery in divorce? When divorcing, you will need to divide your assets. To do so, you need to understand the full range of property you and…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/02/divorce-discovery-and-deposition/"><![CDATA[Unless you have been through a divorce before, the legal terms people use could confuse you. Discovery and deposition are two commonly used processes that are actually fairly straightforward to understand.
<h2><strong>What is a discovery in divorce?</strong></h2>
When divorcing, you will need to divide your assets. To do so, you need to understand the full range of property you and your spouse hold. Discovery is the process of working that out. Only then can you begin to see which assets you need to divide and which stay as separate property belonging to one person only. You and your spouse need to produce any <a href="https://www.findlaw.com/family/divorce/exchange-of-documents-and-information-discovery.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">relevant documents</a> related to asset ownership. If one of you does not give them willingly, the other party can ask the court to grant them access.
<h2><strong>What is a deposition in divorce?</strong></h2>
A deposition is a tool that an attorney can use to aid discovery. They ask you questions while a court reporter notes down in full the answers you give. Your attorney can seek a deposition from your spouse, and their attorney can take one from you.

Depositions can help you discover all the assets as you take one under oath. So, if you think your partner is the real owner of that beachside holiday home they say belongs to their sister, your attorney can ask them. If they lie, you have a written record that they lied, which you could use against them during divorce proceedings. If they admit to owning it, it gets added to the pot of assets you may be entitled to a share of.

A thorough discovery process is an essential part of your divorce. It helps you ensure your partner is not trying to hide assets from you and make sure the <a href="https://www.meneesmw.law/family-law/divorce/" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">property division </a>process is fair.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Menees &amp; Menees</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Surgeons must take care to tidy up after themselves]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47267</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:53:04Z</updated>
            <published>2021-02-17T19:16:58Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Often when you got into a hospital for surgery, you leave with less than you came with. Perhaps medics remove the troublesome appendix or a cancerous lump. Occasionally you leave the hospital with more than you went in with. Maybe surgeons added a pacemaker or installed an organ transplanted from someone else. However, there may be an occasion where you…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/02/surgeons-must-take-care-to-tidy-up-after-themselves/"><![CDATA[Often when you got into a hospital for surgery, you leave with less than you came with. Perhaps medics remove the troublesome appendix or a cancerous lump.

Occasionally you leave the hospital with more than you went in with. Maybe surgeons added a pacemaker or installed an organ transplanted from someone else. However, there may be an occasion where you leave with something extra that you did not request.
<h2><strong>Surgeons sometimes leave objects inside patients</strong></h2>
Each year around <a href="https://edition.cnn.com/2018/02/21/health/surgical-sponges-left-inside-woman-study/index.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">4,500 to 6,000</a> patients get home to find that medics have left a foreign body inside them. Some are soft such as sponges. Others are hard and metallic such as the clamps or forceps used in surgery.

Having a foreign object inside your body can cause pain and discomfort. It can lead to a severe and life-threatening infection such as sepsis or even death. It depends on what the object is and where the medic left it.

You might notice straight away, or it could take time. It may take repeated visits to a doctor until someone thinks to give you an X-ray and spots the reasons for your discomfort. Once discovered, you might need additional surgery to remove the offending item.
<h2><strong>How can staff prevent retained surgical item events from happening?</strong></h2>
There are several simple ways to reduce the chance a patient leaves the hospital with an object inside:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Limiting noise and distraction:</strong> Those in the surgery theater should switch phones off and keep music levels low.</li>
 	<li><strong>Counting items:</strong> Some companies produce items used during surgery with bar codes to track whether surgeons have removed everything used. Staff should always avoid leaving the counting to one person. Recounts are essential.</li>
</ul>
Medical staff cannot afford to make <a href="https://www.meneesmw.law/personal-injury/medical-malpractice/" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">mistakes in surgery</a>. Therefore, hospitals need systems in place to catch these human errors. Failing to do so is negligent.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Financial organization is critical in a divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.menees.law/?p=47223</id>
            <updated>2026-01-14T15:53:09Z</updated>
            <published>2021-02-15T17:40:07Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If your spouse files for divorce out of the blue, it could leave you struggling to think clearly. They may have thought about their decision for a long time and investigated the financial aspects thoroughly. If divorce is unavoidable, you need to put your feelings aside for a moment and focus on your finances. Otherwise, you could come out of…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.menees.law/blog/2021/02/financial-organization-is-critical-in-a-divorce/"><![CDATA[If your spouse files for divorce out of the blue, it could leave you struggling to think clearly. They may have thought about their decision for a long time and investigated the financial aspects thoroughly. If divorce is unavoidable, you need to put your feelings aside for a moment and focus on your finances. Otherwise, you could come out of the marriage with less than you should.
<h2><strong>What financial aspects do I need to think about in divorce?</strong></h2>
Here are some actions to get you started thinking about your finances:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Find your assets:</strong> It can be hard to keep track of all you own if you distribute your wealth in different places. If your partner took charge of the finances, it could be harder still. Try to list bank accounts, investments, pensions, life insurance and retirement funds. Gather statements and account details. If you do not have access, request it from your spouse. Make sure you list items such as property, furniture and artworks. If you are unsure of values, hire an expert.</li>
 	<li><strong>List your debts:</strong> <a href="https://statelaws.findlaw.com/missouri-law/missouri-marital-property-laws.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">In Missouri</a>, courts split marital debts and assets using the rule of equitable distribution. That means fairly but not necessarily equally.</li>
 	<li><strong>Make a budget:</strong> Whether you will be living alone or living with your children, you must ensure you will have enough money to do so. Check how much a smaller property will cost. Remember that costs per head for food and services will go up when there are fewer of you.</li>
 	<li><strong>Calculate divorce costs:</strong> You will need legal representation and may need to contribute to legislative expenses. The more conflict is part of your divorce, the more it is likely to cost you. An attorney can suggest ways to make the process more efficient.</li>
</ul>
The better you <a href="https://www.meneesmw.law/family-law/" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">prepare for divorce</a> financially, the easier it should be after your marriage ends.]]></content>
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